love

well,i noe based on the title,LOVE is juz too general.
but one thing confusing me....tat is..

BE TOGETHER BECAUSE U WANT TO,NOT BECAUSE U NEED TO.

ya,obviously i think many ppl don really understand it.
but the explanation is you don need them though because if your partner is doing their job properly,so are you,you can manage without them.
in a strong relationship,partners don breed dependence-they encourage independence.
if ur partner loves u,they wont change who u r, but will help u build more confident, greater self esteem...and lots.u r not relying n don need to worry bout you will fall apart financially,emotionally or in other ways.coz u r STRONG enough.
it means that u don need ur partner.walk away any day any time is juz fine for u.don need them to make u feel good,to give u financial security,or because no one else would love u.none of tat is needed.
so...WHY ARE YOU WITH THEM?is because u want to be.no other reason.
dont be dependent,when ur partner has gone,you should noe who you are.
i know it is a tough thing to think about.and mayb lots of arguement.but i think once u get into a relationship,u should mentally prepare that how would u cope if ur partner suddenly wasnt there anymore?you should be able to cope it alone.so u don need ur partner.you just wan them.
anyway, it is confusing.because u love ur partner,so u need them?because u need them 1st then u begin to build ur relationship to u want them?or the opposite way?related?issit so?it has its own reasons.
well,i m not any love consultant....anyway,i think the word WANT is far more stronger than the word NEED.

another thing is,there are many signs to show tat ur parner...family...friends express tat they do love u.
flowers,chaocolates,saying 'i love u'...of coz those are abvious one..but in fact they are little thing they do that they didnt have to, they did because they wanted to please u,this is their way to say i love u.
hubby,here u are.the time is quite late.11.30pm..i was going to bed.the phone rang and u said have something to give me.a bowl of hot herbal chicken soup.u brought for me...and said tat is good for blood circulation...thanks...i cant mention one by one...coz is lots.the only thing i can do is remember them one by one.hubby I LOVE YOU.
daddy mummy,u express ur love by working day until night to earn incomes,cook nice dishes when i coming bac home...bring me to doctors when i said i want to....even have to seek the doctor which is not local...the most importantly give me a warm home...thanks n I LOVE YOU.
friends...lots...especially vyin...yanyi...thanks for your encouragement...i love the time when v thinking of the ways to slove the problems...gossip bout others...share our minds...n shopping.~friends..I LOVE YOU...